people : A, B
-situation and main problem :
: A and B are friends. Recently A met a guy and they are in relationship now. A introduces her boyfriend to B.
Actually B knows A's boyfriend because she heard about him before. Someone told her that he is notorious for flirting with all the girls he knows.
So, B says to A what she heard.
And they have a quarrel.
-motivation : A thinks that B is jealous about her new relationship and that is why she is trying to say bad about him.
She doesn't believe at all what B is saying.
B wants A to knows about the rumor about him and tries to help her think again about the relationship.
-feeling : A got upset and is disappointed about B. B is embarrassed about A's reaction and also disappointed about A.
-causes : the main cause of this situation is the difference in their point of view.
-solution : As they have different point of view, it isn't easy to resolve this situation.
Firstly, B should think again before talking about the rumor to A. B doesn't know weather the rumor is true or not.
Even though it is true, B has to be more discreet as it is related to A's boyfriend.
Nobody wants to hear about the bad aspect of their boy/girl friend.
Since B tells A the rumor directly, it hearts A's mind and makes A lose her temper.
To prevent this situation, B should have explained more in detail about the rumor.
Also, she should have tried to use word that is more smooth.
In addition, A should have tried to listen to B.
As she got upset as soon as she heard what B was saying, they could't have a conversation and just had a quarrel.
Rather than getting upset immediately and reacting emotionally,
A should have listened to B more patiently and asked her more detailed information.
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